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Does My Autistic Child Understand Me? Here's the Answer

Yes—many autistic children do understand you, even if they don’t respond in typical ways. Understanding may look different, but it’s there.


What the Research Says

Communication and understanding are not always linked to speech. Studies show that up to 40% of autistic children are nonverbal, but many still understand language, tone, and emotional cues (Autism Speaks, NAS UK).


Some autistic children process spoken words more slowly. Others may rely more on visual supports or gestures. This means responses might be delayed, subtle, or expressed through behavior—not words.


One Maryland parent shared, “We thought our daughter didn’t understand us—until she started responding to visuals and routines. She just needed time and the right tools.


Conclusion

So, does my autistic child understand me? In many cases, yes. It may not look or sound like typical communication, but understanding is still happening. Want help unlocking your child’s communication style? Call All Star ABA in Maryland—we’ll help you build a bridge that works for both of you.


FAQs


  • Does my autistic child understand me even if they don’t respond?

    Yes. Many autistic children understand language but may have difficulty showing it verbally or socially.

  • How can I tell if my autistic child understands me?

    Look for responses through actions, facial expressions, following routines, or using alternative communication tools.

  • Can nonverbal autistic children understand speech?

    Yes. Research shows that being nonverbal doesn't mean a lack of understanding.

  • What helps an autistic child understand better?

    Using clear language, visuals, routines, and consistency can improve understanding and reduce frustration.

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