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How to Prepare Your Autistic Child for a New Brother or Sister

Bringing a new baby home is exciting, but it can also feel like a big change for an autistic child. With the right support, preparation, and a little patience, you can help your child adjust and build a positive bond with their new sibling.


Helping an Autistic Child Get Ready for a New Sibling

For many children with autism, changes in routine, noise, and attention can be overwhelming. Talking about the baby early and often makes the idea feel less scary and more predictable.


Some simple ways to prepare include:


  • Reading social stories about becoming a big brother or sister
  • Looking at baby photos and videos together
  • Using a doll to practice gentle touch and caregiving
  • Explaining what babies do (cry, sleep, need help) in clear, simple language


This kind of preparation supports emotional regulation, reduces anxiety, and helps your child feel more in control.


Managing Sensory Sensitivities and Big Feelings

Newborns bring new sounds, smells, and activity levels. For a child with sensory processing differences, this can be a lot to handle.


You can help by:


  • Creating a quiet, calming space for breaks
  • Using visual schedules to show when routines will change
  • Offering noise-reducing headphones during crying spells
  • Validating feelings: “It’s okay to feel overwhelmed”


These strategies support self-regulation and make the transition easier for children with autism.


Encouraging a Healthy Sibling Relationship

Let your child interact at their own pace. Some kids may want to help right away, while others need time to observe from a distance.


Try:


  • Giving them small “helper” jobs
  • Praising gentle behavior
  • Spending one-on-one time so they don’t feel replaced
  • Using positive reinforcement to encourage calm, kind interactions


Over time, this builds comfort, trust, and a strong sibling bond.


How All Star ABA Supports Families During Big Changes

At All Star ABA, we help families navigate life transitions, including welcoming a new baby into a home with a child on the autism spectrum. We provide compassionate, evidence-based ABA therapy and parent training to support emotional development, behavior management, and family routines.


We proudly serve families in Maryland ABA therapy services and Virginia ABA therapy services, offering:



Whether you’re looking for support with sibling transitions, emotional regulation, or daily routines, our team is here to help.


Contact All Star ABA today to learn how our autism therapy services can support your growing family


FAQs



  • How do you prepare an autistic child for a new baby?

    Use social stories, visual supports, and simple explanations to make the change predictable and less overwhelming.


  • What if my child shows jealousy or behavior changes?

    This is common. Extra reassurance, one-on-one time, and consistent routines can help ease emotional stress.


  • Can ABA therapy help with sibling adjustment?

    Yes. ABA therapy can support communication, emotional regulation, and positive social behavior during family changes like welcoming a new sibling.


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