Keep It Simple and Honest
Use clear, straightforward language. For younger children, you might say,
“Your brother’s brain works a little differently, so he learns and plays in his own way.” For older siblings, you can explain that autism affects communication, behavior, and how their brother or sister experiences the world.
Highlight Differences Without Judgment
Explain that their sibling may need extra support or prefer routines, but also has unique strengths like being really good at puzzles, remembering details, or focusing on favorite activities.
Encourage Empathy and Support
Remind siblings that autism doesn’t change how much their brother or sister loves them. Encourage patience during
meltdowns and celebrate progress together as a family.
Answer Questions Openly
Let siblings ask questions, and be ready to answer honestly. This helps reduce confusion and builds acceptance over time.
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SOURCES:
https://researchautism.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/OAR_SiblingResource_Parents_2015.pdf
https://raisingchildren.net.au/autism/communicating-relationships/family-relationships/siblings-asd
https://www.autismspeaks.org/sites/default/files/2018-08/Siblings%20Guide%20to%20Autism.pdf
https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/family-life-and-relationships/family-life/siblings
https://www.appliedbehavioranalysisedu.org/5-tips-for-talking-to-neurotypical-kids-about-siblings-with-asd/
